But for now I can make an update on what's kind of been going on in my life and what that's been teaching me. In the past month that I have not been posting or online, I have seen my best friend get married, fought really hard and got to continue my school despite majorly lacking credits, and I've celebrated my parents being married 25 years.
Accepting imperfection has always been difficult to me, thinking and certainly believing that immediately I had to be perfect in things made the fall so much steeper when I failed to be. It took my motivation and crushed it because I thought I couldn't after failing my first attempt.
I hate that things are changing now and everything will be different, but I also know to trust the process and be in it. Don't avoid the process because you don't want to be there, everything has something to teach you. Go through it, embrace it, and learn from it.
A few weeks ago I was broken, a simple college student who no longer had to motivation or determination for anything including life. Lying on the couch just crying because everything was a mess and there seemed to be no way out. Crippling fear going through your body because everything seems to be going wrong and all the hope you once had for your future now being gone.
The experiences of going back home to Singapore, seeing my friends, family, room and everything again, getting to travel to Bali Indonesia and meeting new people who struggled with the same things as me, talking to long distance friends. Everything has seemed to help piece back the puzzle one by one.